Consent
Ask first. Listen fully. No means no, and the absence of a clear yes also means no.
Milwaukee · Private social community · 21+
Come curious.
Leave connected.
A welcoming, consent-centered community for kink, fetish, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles—built by peers, for peers.
Be bold.
Be kind.
Be yourself.
No pretense. No pressure. Just community.
Every Thursday
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Respect · Privacy · Consent
Come as you are✦
Consent is the culture✦
All identities welcome✦
Come as you are✦
Consent is the culture✦
All identities welcome✦
01
Who we are
Not a scene to fit into.
A space to belong.
Milwaukee Naughties is a not-for-profit social group managed by a collaborative group of peers.
We welcome adults of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnic backgrounds, relationship styles, interests, preferences, and abilities to join us Thursday nights.
Our mission is to offer support, encouragement, inspiration, and education in a safe, respectful, collaborative, interactive, and non-exploitative environment.
Weekly
THU Milwaukee, WIYour weekly reset
Thursday Night
Munches
A private, low-pressure social gathering for conversation, connection, and community. New faces are welcome.
- Where
- LVL Events at La Cage
Second floor · S 2nd St - Entry
- 21+ · Valid ID required
Event-post password required
Street legal to the door. Fetish gear and kinky dress are welcome inside.
Before you arrive
- 01 Find the current event post ↗
- 02Note the entry password
- 03Bring your valid ID
- 04Bring your respectful self
RSVPs are appreciated, but not required.
02
What holds the room
Freedom feels better
with a foundation.
The kind of night everyone deserves starts with a few non-negotiables.
Privacy
What happens at Naughties stays at Naughties. Protect each other's stories and identities.
Respect
Honor names, pronouns, boundaries, bodies, beliefs, expressions, and lived experiences.
Inclusion
Every gender, orientation, race, religion, relationship style, and ability belongs here.
03
Know before you go
Safe can still be
seriously sexy.
These rules apply to weekly munches and all official Naughties events. Updated November 4, 2025.
Read the complete updated rules01Admission & attire +
Events are 21+ unless a special event states otherwise. Everyone must show valid ID to club security and provide the password from the current event post. Street-legal attire is required to the door; fetish gear and kinky dress are permitted inside, with nipples and genitals covered.
02Consent & conduct +
Clear consent is required before any physical contact, play, or non-physical interaction. Ask before casual touch—including hugs, head pats, or a hand on someone's back. Soliciting sex or any pay-for-play activity is prohibited.
03Privacy & photography +
Do not disclose personal details about attendees. Photography, livestreaming, video chat, and recording are generally prohibited except in the designated brick-wall area by the bar, and only with the consent of everyone pictured.
04Safety & substances +
Weapons and illegal drugs are not permitted at events or on venue property. Guests who appear intoxicated or impaired may be refused entry or asked to leave. Professional venue security may perform checks at the door.
05Stage play +
All play-related activity must follow the separately posted Stage Play Rules. Light play is only permitted on stage and must follow current event guidelines and Dungeon Monitor instructions.
You are never on your own
See something?
Say something.
Board Members wear glowing wristbands at events. Reach out any time you feel unsafe, disrespected, or need support. Reports are handled with care and confidentiality.
Share confidential feedback
The feedback form can be completed by you, a Board Member, or a trusted friend on your behalf.