Consent
Ask first. Listen fully. The absence of a clear yes also means no.
A private social community · Milwaukee · 21+
Curiosity,
cultivated.
A private 21+ social community for kink, fetish, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles — rooted in consent, privacy, and respect.
I.
Who we are
A place to arrive
exactly as you are.
Milwaukee Naughties is a not-for-profit, peer-managed social group for adults in Milwaukee's kink, fetish, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle communities.
We welcome people of all genders, orientations, backgrounds, relationship styles, interests, and abilities.
Our gatherings are built around education, connection, consent, privacy, and mutual respect.
Every
THU
Milwaukee
The weekly gathering
Thursday
night munches.
Private, low-pressure evenings made for conversation, connection, and community. Whether you are experienced or simply curious, new faces are welcome.
Location
LVL Events at La Cage Second floor · S 2nd StAdmission
21+ with valid ID Event-post password requiredAttire
Street legal to the door Fetish dress welcomed inside
Find the current event
RSVPs are appreciated, but not required.
II.
The standard we share
What keeps
the room safe.
Privacy
Protect the stories, identities, and trust of everyone in the room.
Respect
Honor every name, pronoun, boundary, body, belief, and expression.
Inclusion
Every gender, orientation, race, religion, style, and ability belongs.
Before you attend
The art of
good company.
A little care keeps the night comfortable for everyone. Please read the current rules before attending.
Read the complete rules01Consent before contact +
Clear consent is required before physical touch, play, or non-physical interaction. This includes casual hugs and affection.
02Discretion always +
Personal details stay private. Photography and recording are restricted to the designated area and require everyone's consent.
03Arrive present +
Weapons and illegal drugs are prohibited. Guests who appear intoxicated or impaired may be refused entry or asked to leave.
04Respect the room +
Solicitation and pay-for-play are prohibited. Honor every guest's identity, boundaries, beliefs, and lived experience.
05Play by the rules +
Stage activity must follow posted Stage Play Rules, current event guidance, and Dungeon Monitor instructions.
Care is part of the culture
Speak freely.
We will listen.
Board Members wear glowing wristbands at events. Reach out whenever you feel unsafe, disrespected, or need support. Reports are handled with care and confidentiality.
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